9. It is perhaps maybe not that which you fight about вЂ” itвЂ™s the method that you fight
вЂњResearchers have found that four conflict messages are in a position to anticipate whether partners stay together or get divorced: contempt, critique, stonewalling (or withdrawal), and defensiveness.
Together, theyвЂ™re called вЂThe Four Horsemen.вЂ™ In place of relying on these negative techniques, battle fairly: search for places where each partnerвЂ™s objective overlaps as a provided goal that is common build from that. (more…)