Here’s What 15 Relationship Professionals Can Teach Us About Love

Here’s What 15 Relationship Professionals Can Teach Us About Love

9. It is perhaps maybe not that which you fight about — it’s the method that you fight

“Researchers have found that four conflict messages are in a position to anticipate whether partners stay together or get divorced: contempt, critique, stonewalling (or withdrawal), and defensiveness.

Together, they’re called ‘The Four Horsemen.’ In place of relying on these negative techniques, battle fairly: search for places where each partner’s objective overlaps as a provided goal that is common build from that. (more…)

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